Open Question: Can you help i have a problemo with me fiance?
sooo, we are buying a house together,his parents and mine are helping with the diwn payment as a wedding gift. ( :erm, i really like this house it is 175,000, with three bed rooms, out of london of course thus the price. I love it and i love the size and it is reallyyy pretty. We can also afford it because my parents are paying a bit more towards it but also because of the size i suggested we add tenants on the whole up stairs of the house or mortage payments, plus that gives us some savings or more to spend on an other costs..Im not working at the moment, im going to be studying for a year for professional quslification.The problem, he wants some thing in a 'better' area, some place more central and busy.However it is a small town and travelling around is not difficult at all.If we pick a place which is busier and more central we won't get this sized house for the price, it will cost more and then we won't be able to afford it any way because we won't have space for tenants..and on top of that he has tp support me a bit too. )),=Id rather get a job, but he knows i need to be in full time education and i have mine own bursary for it of 900 per month, plus a golden hello of 3000.- the thing is my dad and i have made him go sort out mortgages now, my dad is doing every thing.While my fiance is complaing about nothing just the location of the perfect house. I don't know why he hasn't found some thing he likes in an ideal location for him then??How long does he want to take with this? or is there some thing else on his mind???I was hoping to move in soon after i get married, but so far i made all the appointments for him and my dad, they are getting a move on it after i spoke to my dad about this.I just don't know why im getting married then?? and what is going on???Before planning to get a house which was always my plans but i never told him until i knew i was really going to marry him, he wanted me to move in to a rented accomodation with him. And i felt a bit shocked that even after 'we' decided to get a house together which he was quite happy about he wanted me to move in to a rented accomodation with him 'any way' right away i got married. And i was like What rubbish, and i made them all not bother me with theor idiocy ad start cracking on my house wth is going on?? is there some thing i should be aware of?Or, are they just lazy and a it dumb??Also, i asked my fiance about going on holiday together, to which he responded by saying it would be a good idea. I also asked him to let me know about places he would like to go visit, and he responded by asking me where did i want to go to??? /;Again, i sent him another email yesterday asking where he wanted to go and so far no response. I don't know if im going to get one, and even if i do im wondering if it will be of any good?.The thing is when ever i do tell him that this is what i like or how i want some thing, if it is a joint decision thing he always has different ideas. ie; he was trying to 'tell' me what to wear on our weding day while i was letting him pick what he wanted to wear. I found a house which is beautiful a good size and i planned for it to be affordable. I made him go look at mortgages, so far all he has said is the location isn't ideal but then why hasn't he found any thing he likes yet? and id be happy to consider it or buy it if he lets me know. But i do know what will be affordable and what won't etc.. I wouldn't buy a 175000 house in an area he wants because it will be expense and too small for tenants any way. But the tenants give us more for spending or saving.. i thoought it will help just with the first year and we have help with a good mortage deal any way so we will have quite a nice home for the value.Im might consider saying i don't want that house then and he better find one in a good popular area, we won't have tennants and he can suffer by paying, i can complain about the poor standards and my poor up keep, etc. I don't know? i shouldn't do that should i? I might even just ignore this holiday thing, if he hasn't done any thing about the house and i can continue to live with my parents for longer, much longer and longer. but he will know and they will know what i was upset about then. /:Should i just let them all be lazy? And see where they get? i had move on with it now finally, but also i migt not bother saying any thing about the holiday now and see if he comes back with any thing? if he doesn't soon im not bothering with it either that quick, or i just might not.what do you think?I also planned the whole weding and made all the arrangements by my self, i asked about what ever he wanted and i did a good job.i think he didn't want tennants, but i was really helping myself too and he doesn't understand i can't live off him any way he can't afford me. . . !and i really can't live in a one bed room flat, i suffer from mild claustrophobiahe doesn't know that yet.plus, we both need our own space .any way, i don't think that is the case really, im thinking he is well may be there is some thing more wrong???
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Open Question: Can I wear a long dress?
For my grad? I know its really "in style" to wear shorter dresses, but I really want a longer, flowy one. the only problem is, I'm plus sized and I'm sort of curvy. I have a super, SUPER wide bone set (main reason for me being plus size :/). I'm only 5'4", plus I kind of have stumpy legs, lol.So i was wondering if I could wear a floor length dress and what kind of shape to go for. Thank you!
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Open Question: Ear stretching: two piercings in the same ear at the same time (just a small stretch tho)?
So about a week ago I went from a 14 to 12 in my bottom piercing and I currently have a 14 in my second piercing. My goal is to get to 00 for my bottom piercings. I bought these 12 gauge stainless steal hook earrings and I love them (plus they were kinda expensive) so I want to keep wearing them, but in my second piercing. So would it be okay to stretch the second holes to 12 and the bottom holes to 10 at the same time? I know it is recommended to wait longer than a week before you go up sizes, but my ears have no pain and aren't red or anything any more so I want to go up to a 10. Once I get to bigger gauges I'll definitely wait longer than a week, so please don't chew me out. I really am being careful and I'm making sure I don't get a rip or blowout or anything while I'm stretching,lmao. so anyway I just went from the 12 to the 10 and I literally did not feel a thing at all. Just sorta popped it in, lolSo I started the 12 and its hurting like a bitch. wtf? its a tiny gauge :/
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Open Question: Where can I find an edgy Plus Size prom dress?
Prom is a few months away and I'm currently in the process of finding a trendy-edgy prom dress. My size is between 22-24 and I'm finding it difficult to find one that I truly like. I'm looking for a dress that is purple, hot pink, or a copper/yellow topaz in color. Also ruffles at the bottom would look really cool. I'm also trying to keep it under $150, if possible. It doesn't matter if it's short or long or tea length, I'm just trying to find a dress that'll totally rock my prom.Please post some links of dresses or sites that will be of some help. Thank you, I really appreciate it! (:
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